Missing my home....

I called up my Dad and asked with tears all over my face "Dad...why is it that after my marriage you have left me far away and alone , why did you do this to me?".....

Dad .... Mom......
Missing both of you....
No matter you have world's best boy friend or husband....Its Parents care that no one can replace....
untill I was with my parents I never realized.....
When I am far away from them...every minute...every second I think about them....
They are just not bothered about whats right or whats wrong...
All they care about is your happiness....


I miss my parents...my heart is ripping apart thinking that I am far away from them....
I got a lot of support and appreciation from my parents in whatever my desire was....
No matter how you are.....You are always a PERFECT KID to them....something which makes me think....
you are lean...you are fat...you are ugly..you are beautiful...you are short ...you are tall...no matter what...You are always a perfect Kid for your parents....


LOVE MY PARENTS.....I TRULY TRULY MISS THEM...DEEP DOWN FROM MY HEART......

I Miss everything...all the moments I have been with you....Your Love...Your care...
I Miss being myself when I am with you....

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?


Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!

only once in your life

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”

things change

sometimes you are in love with nothing more than a memory of what use to be...

Classy but down to earth

Der r people who are fully loaded wit money...classy ....but down to earth....

Enjoyed the company of these 2 friends....spent 8 hrs chatting all mundane matters of life...
Just like that usual talk....interesting but non sense talk....

Few things they talked about was totally new to me...
Some membership of golf club....
That club...this club....n benefits of club membership...positions der parents hold in club membership(president...chairman)...sounded greek n latin as me n my parents  havnever been part of such things.....

Its amazing to catch some old friends....even after some gap of time frame wen u meet up ur friend ...the old you pops up at the top....

Something really happens wen old friends come back to your life....it was as though we left college yesterday even though it was years in actual.....
Al dat happening in between the gap we were seperated wit our own life seemed to b melted....
Familiarity of deep friendship and ease unaffected by years....

Years change you and yet you remain the same...even if you are married...bcum a parent...deep down you are stil the same person......thats how nature works....

All i want to conclude is it was nice finding my old me wen chatting wit these wierd characters....they r so different but yet so enjoyable n right in der own way....

cling on to hope....there is reason to smile

I was little low.....
Yes....there is always reason to smile...
until I have some1 like you is with me...
when everything goes complicated..u fill me with all strength in this world...with all hopes....
your words amazing....

our relationship is an example for relationship surviving even without the exchange of gifts ;) ;)
But stil I vow you ..may be my lifetime is not sufficient to repay....

I need not wear a mask when I am with you....
I need not fake things to make you happy...because being myself is what makes you happy!!!!!
Life is awesome when you are with me...
There is always reason to be happy.Even through tough times or even in times of abundance, there's always a reason to smile.There are always people to make life beautiful....
your eyes pushes some tears out only to make you strong....

Dedicating this to someone....someone mine....someone special...someone beautiful from heart...someone just like you.....
hmmmmmm thanks buddy....I call this person buddy.... :) 

cling on to hope....there is reason to smile

He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver

If today u are feeling the heat of the fire,remember that you are in god's hand,he had his eye on you,and he will kerp holding you and watching you until he sees his image in you......